The advice column from Hades

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Hi there, I’m Abigail Imogen Drake, your Fairy Transmother.

The topic this week wasn’t presented as a question as such. Instead it arose following a conversation with a dear friend and fellow writer, MaddieRose. What came from that conversation was of sufficient import that I thought it was worth exploring here.

Maddie had recently written a pretty horny little piece for Sexpressions’ big sister for cheaters, The Scarlett Letter. You can find the piece here. It’s a fairly straightforward tale of sex while restrained. I already had a reservation or two with the piece as it stood, which I’ll address…

The Lisbon Diaries - Emily

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The Lisbon is a basement pub in Liverpool (so ignore the fitness place above!). Over a hundred and thirty years old with ornate décor, it’s been at the centre of Liverpool’s gay scene for an age. So where else was a clueless, bored, lonely transgender lesbian going to go to be around her own kind?

The advice column from Hades

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Hi there, I’m Abigail Imogen Drake, your Fairy Transmother.

OK. Look. It's a holiday weekend on both sides of the Atlantic. And I have more of these columns lined up, one of which I'd have preferred to publish sooner. But I'm a day late so let me answer this quickie. I've heard it plenty but it came up this weekend (again. Sigh) so let's get to it.

What does 'CIS' stand for?
(As in… cisgender.)

So, us trans people are a small minority. It can easily seem that the terminology in our tiny community is exclusive. It's not.

Cis is…

The advice column from Hades

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Hi there, I’m Abigail Imogen Drake, your Fairy Transmother.

We have quite the question this week. It comes from D.H. (Lawrence? 'darling hubby'? Dick Hole? Sorry luv, couldn't resist. This last might be apropos)

Hi Abbie,
A friend of mine mentioned he'd tried urethral sounding and recommended it. I was embarrassed to ask but I've no idea what this even is. Should I try it?

Let's get right to it then. D.H. Urethral sounding is the practice of inserting an object into the urethra (the tube that connects your bladder to the outside world, so to speak). It's that simple…

The advice column from Hades

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Hi there, I’m Abigail Imogen Drake, your Fairy Transmother.

This week I want to take a broad look at one of the most generic questions that any advice column is guaranteed to be asked in some way, shape or form…

Am I Normal?

Short answer? Yeah. Probably. But what fun is the short answer?

It’s a question I get asked a lot on Quora, especially among the baby trans people who are looking for guidance either prior to, or early on in transition. …

The advice column from Hades.

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Hi there, I’m Abigail Imogen Drake, your Fairy Transmother. This week’s question comes from Louise, another writer here on Medium.

Hey, Mrs. Capricious, I am a trans woman that still loves men. I much prefer them and I am on HRT right now. Any advice for me?

OK. That’s quite a broad question, Louise. I’d love to talk more in depth about love and sex when you’re transgender. But for now, let’s concentrate on you and I’ll return to the wider issues at a later date.

First things first, Louise… give yourself permission to be OK with your sexuality. You’ve…

Introducing the advice column from Hades

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Hi there. My name is Abigail Imogen Drake. And this is Sex AID. See what I did there?

This is going to be a regular column here on Sexpressions, the publication for the clever bad folks. I aim to answer questions or debate topics relating to all aspects of sex and relationships, treading a fine line between humour and sincerity.

It’s Dear Abbie for fuckers who find sex both interesting and hilarious.

‘All well and good, Abbie. But what the hell do you know, and why should we trust you?’

Ok, firstly go with Reagan, Satan never rest his soul…

Still queer, but near to home

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Okay, so with Part Three a brief recap…

In Part One I talked about how I kinda, maybe, technically, then emphatically lost my ‘straight’ cherry. Oh wait, I should clarify… Straight me being a ‘dude’ fucking a girl cherry (that distinction will become more apparent later…)

In Part Two I recounted how, still a ‘dude’ (fucking ugh. So not ME) I got it on with more than one guy. So, I guess kinda ‘bi’??

But let’s not forget… Despite us having caught up to me at roughly 37 when I was fucked roughly by the guy with the club cock…

Mrs. Capricious

Capricious by name, steadfast by nature. Trans femme dyke. Smutsmith. Provocateur. Witch. Poet. Slut. Idiot. Kicking names and taking ass.

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