As a trans woman just out of year one I whole-hearted agree.

I don’t have a choice in my transition. Others do have a choice in how they treat me. Most are great or neutral.

But then there’s the assholes, as you say Cassie.

I do my best to protect my baby trans sisters just as you are doing for my ‘generation’.

58% of us DON’T attempt suicide… When you put it that way round you realise that we are starting to make it, even if there’s a staggering, even appalling, amount of work left.

Keep the faith, sister.

Much love, many hugs


Capricious by name, steadfast by nature. Trans femme dyke. Smutsmith. Provocateur. Witch. Poet. Slut. Idiot. Kicking names and taking ass.