Being desired and being objectified are two different things. I have no issue with men who are openly trans amorous. I do have an issue with men who treat us walking sex toys.

As for meeting outside dating apps, ofc that’s valid. But online dating allows people to be a little more proactive and selective.

On a personal level I think I’d rather a date be sober to start with. Plus, as a lesbian I can’t take for granted that a woman I like would be receptive to my advances. So same sex dating apps can definitely help.

As for Louise’s identity, Kitty, she asked the question in the comments section of last week’s column. 😜 Nice try.

Love ya!

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