I share your frustration. But...would it really have helped the LGBTQ+ community to make as wide an audience as Mulvaney has aware that Allies are being killed in our name?!
It's tricky. I don't want allies fleeing for fear of collateral harm. Yet I also don't want the very real sacrifice of allies go unnoted.
No, I don't have the answers. Like you, I'm just trying to make my way through the world.
Here's hoping for the day we don't have to hide. But I'm not holding my breathe.
Warm regards,
Abbie