I wrote a piece about this some time ago. Before I deleted all my work off here. I'm slowly putting it back up on my own publication.
I'll try to dig that one out, see if it needs significant updates.
Choosing the right app is the first step. I used Her cos men do not interest me.
Next is patience. I got some interest, among the arseholes and scammers.
Honestly though, what Charlie Allison said is best.
I've been engaged to another trans woman for over two years now. And we did not meet on a dating app.
There's someone out there, hun.