I’m 50.

And those close to me have accused me of acting like a teenage girl. I mean I’m fine with that. Having come out as trans at 48 I can be forgiven for catching up on a little of the living as my true self i should have done thirty years ago, right?


Tasha… define things your own way and summon the strength to stick to that. Everything else is compromise and disappointment. But stick to it and you’ll find you attract people who get it.

Your (much) older sister,


Capricious by name, steadfast by nature. Trans femme dyke. Smutsmith. Provocateur. Witch. Poet. Slut. Idiot. Kicking names and taking ass.