Loved the piece and can sympathise to a degree.
But this quote… You offer it just after talking about dating a cis woman. Homosexual surely? Trans women who date cis women are gay, luv. I know I am!
If you were sat in that meeting regarding the other trans women as hetero doesn’t that mean you considered them men? And that being said is it little wonder it sounded like a room full of men?!
I’m not judging, heavens no. Old habits and all that. I didn’t start transitioning til I was 48 so I sympathise. But I find women love a gossip with me, just as with any other woman. I find a little vulnerability helps. Women are very sympathetic when they hear the comedic pratfalls of becoming a woman at the age of 50. Lol