Marty, as a trans woman I’ve seen both sides of the gender divide and yours is about as healthy and attitude as us women could hope for. You’re a credit to your daughters.

Realising you can’t fully understand or empathise with the plight of women is the beginning of wisdom. Take us at our word when we tell you what it’s like and help us fix it. Don’t fix it for us. You’ll find us more than capable if you stand aside and let us get one with it. And we’ll love you so much more it. Your daughters especially will adore and respect a father who treats them as nothing less than fully capable of doing whatever needs doing.

Keep being awesome.

Capricious by name, steadfast by nature. Trans femme dyke. Smutsmith. Provocateur. Witch. Poet. Slut. Idiot. Kicking names and taking ass.