Personally I get the posed nature of most stock photos so I don’t make a judgement about the model’s actual state of mind.

And I didn’t stop caring throughout your piece. I listened. I took it in. And, despite the deal with the devil stock photos might be. I don’t want to contribute to a curtailment of your career. I haven’t, nor will I use your photo.

I know my actions and words won’t be sufficient alone to tilt the needle of your career trajectory. But I hope my words reassure you that some of us listen and care enough to do what little we can.

Much love, many hugs, sister


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