Oh and to answer the point of 'there are trans women who'd disagree'. Meh.
In any cohort there are dickheads.
Surely you don't want me to judge your words by guys who wander town muttering to themselves how god tol them to do a thing, just because you share a gender or whatever.
My authority, such as it is, comes from my coherent lived experiences, atypical levels of introspection, and having some modicum of intelligence, rather than just being some knee-jerk reactionary foghorn.
Talk to me some more and judge for yourself.