Thanks for commenting, Georgette.
This is super interesting to me. May I ask who you were attracted to, pre-transition? It sounds like you’re attracted to women, but open to the idea of a CD who is sufficiently feminine. I’ve wondered about this for myself too. I’ve dated a trans woman before, who was pre-everything, while I was already on hormones, but some way from SRS. I found that fine. I had no trouble considering her a woman (despite a little stubble when we made out. 😬).
But a male CD… I don’t know. I have no problem with handling a penis (although I’ve never managed to make a man cum, funnily enough) but I think I’d prefer it belong to a trans woman. The fact that CDs can set aside their femininity when it suits kinda bothers me, if I’m being honest. Because of the general ignored of the wider public, us trans women are all too often lumped in with CDs and even drag queens. All three are very different things, but such distinctions are lost on most people.