This. As a trans woman let me tell you I had a sense of female sexuality before transition. The full depth and breadth of that energy, however, eluded me until some time on hormones and, after several revelatory and very different orgasms, trust me they know, on some instinctual level, they can’t compete. So female sexuality must be contained.
Makes me so angry and sad. We’d ALL be better off were it not so.