…o’d going to clean the bathroom…it’s a carefree arrangement that allows you to let your guard down. I think many of us fall for the illusion of love with an affair partner but would not do well in a real relationship with them.
Well now… Having been with my first AP for 23 years, 21 of those married, I’d have to beg to differ. We parlayed that fire, spark, and freedom into a lifelong commitment.
Were it not for her disabilities and my gender transition (big enough hurdles for any relationship surely) we’d likely still be in the honeymoon phase.
But those hurdles ARE real. And so 👋here I am, cheating. Again.