Well now… Having been with my first AP for 23 years, 21 of those married, I’d have to beg to differ. We parlayed that fire, spark, and freedom into a lifelong commitment.

Were it not for her disabilities and my gender transition (big enough hurdles for any relationship surely) we’d likely still be in the honeymoon phase.

But those hurdles ARE real. And so 👋here I am, cheating. Again.

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