Wow do I sympathise. I’ve been my wife’s full time carer for 15 years now. AND I came out as a trans woman 15 months ago. My wife is straight…

So… I totally get having that itch that isn’t getting scratched (doesn’t help that my wife is more than eight years my senior).

Good for you!!

Much love, many hugs


Capricious by name, steadfast by nature. Trans femme dyke. Smutsmith. Provocateur. Witch. Poet. Slut. Idiot. Kicking names and taking ass.